2011- JAN 01
Treating your guy to a lap dance should be hot…but actually giving one can be, well, awkward. So here are some tips from an expert strip teaser.
Before You Start…
Choose your song — something slow but sexy (think anything by Kings of Leon) will do the trick. And don’t feel obligated to make your lap dance last an entire song. Usually 60-90 seconds is all you need (and all he can take before he bursts through his pants). Then put a chair against the wall — you’ll need to use the wall for support — and have your guy sit in it so that his legs are spread open. You’ll want to stay within that triangle-shaped space between his thighs as you try these moves:
The Sexy Lean
Stand between his legs and lean you upper body forward, with your back arched and your butt up in the air, so he gets a hot view of your body. Put your hands on the wall above him, or rest them on the arms of the chair for support. Then tease him by inching your girls closer and closer to his face — but don’t let him touch — or dip forward even further and rub them against his chest.
For this one, start a little further back, right between his knees, so he can see everything you’re doing. Take your hands and slowly start to rub your boobs, like you’re putting on body lotion. Touch yourself like you would want him to touch you — trail your hands down to your lower abs just above your hot spot, work your way back up to your chest, or turn around massage your butt. The key is to go in slow mo, so he can imagine having his hands all over you.
Your hottest seduction tool is your hips, and this move is super easy to master. Slowly start swaying your hips from side to side, and then move them in a figure eight. Up the ante by touching yourself as you do it — this is a prime time to show off your “lotion” skills.
Turn around and hover your butt just above his crotch (you can put your hands on his thighs or the arms of the chair for balance). Move your butt in circles, like you’re painting his package with your cheeks. Then switch to an up and down motion, like you’re riding him in reverse cowgirl. To really make him pitch a tent, look back at him as you grind against his body.